Saturday, March 19, 2011

Yakin pe yakin dilate hain dost,
raah chalte ko bewkøøf banate hain dost,
sharbat bol k daru pilate hain dost,
par kuch b kahe sale bahut yaad ate hain dost.

Friday, March 4, 2011

ARE WE REALLY PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN..........OR A MYTH...???


The daughter of an Indian maharajah seated on a panther she shot, sometime during 1920s.   

 



 

A British man gets a pedicure from an Indian servant. 



  

The Grand Trunk Road , built by Sher Shah Suri, was the main trade route from Calcutta to Kabul .


A group of Dancing or notch girls began performing with their elaborate costumes and jewelry


 

A rare view of the President's palace and the Parliament building in New Delhi . 


 

Women gather at a party in Mumbai ( Bombay ) in 1910. 


 

A group from Vaishnava, a sect founded by a Hindu mystic. His followers are called Gosvami-maharajahs 


 

An aerial view of Jama Masjid mosque in Delhi , built between 1650 and 1658. 


 

The Imperial Airways 'Hanno' Hadley Page passenger airplane carries the England to India air mail, stopping in Sharjah to refuel. 


 

See what the India was at 1835....... 




Now coming to the point..this letter clearly states that Indian culture is far more greater compared to the western culture. But today, WE are the ones who want to follow western culture, WE are the ones who would prefer to talk in English, thinking hindi is "middle class", WE are the ones who want to settle abroad, and WE are the ones who think that the british and american accent is "cool".
Even though the British have left our country more than half a century ago, we are STILL their slaves..slaves of the British culture, of the British education, of almost EVERYTHING!

This is an extract fro Dr Abdul Kalam's speech, our ex-president..please take time to read it..

"YOU say that our government is inefficient. YOU say that our laws are too old. YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage. YOU say that the phones don't work, the railways are a joke, the airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination. YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits. YOU say, say and say.


What do YOU do about it? Take a person on his way to Singapore. Give him a name - YOURS. Give him a face - YOURS. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best. In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores. YOU are as proud of their Underground Links as they are. You pay $5 (approx. Rs. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM.

YOU comeback to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity. In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU? YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai. YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah. YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds (Rs. 650) a month to, "see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else." YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 kph) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, "Jaanta hai sala main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son. Take your two bucks and get lost." YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand. Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo? Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston? We are still talking of the same YOU. YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own. You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground. If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country why cannot you be the same here in India. Once in an interview, the famous Ex-municipal commissioner of Bombay Mr.Tinaikar had a point to make. "Rich people's dogs are walked on the streets to leave their affluent droppings all over the place," he said. "And then the same people turn around to criticize and blame the authorities for inefficiency and dirty pavements. What do they expect the officers to do? Go down with a broom every time their dog feels the pressure in his bowels? In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan. Will the Indian citizen do that here?" He's right. We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility. We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative. We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin. We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms. We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity. This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public. When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child and others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse? "It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry." So who's going to change the system? What does a system consist of? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbors, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU. When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr. Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand. Or we leave the country and run away. Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England. When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money."
This is not just another mail to "awaken the patriot within us". Most of u will just read it, and say "sach yaar, apni country kitni SAHI hai, aur uska kya haal ho gaya hai!"
But NOBODY will implement what is there in the mail..u will STILL want to live on pizza n burger ...u will STILL want to wear Lee, Wrangler, Gucci and other brands..u will STILL want to settle abroad!

Its high time that we wake up and start respecting our culture, our education, our NATION!
JAI HIND!

frendzz...value to be treasured!!!




People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with
guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. 




Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh..
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.



LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. 






Dear Friends what happen when girl is quiet.......
















When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
                 
When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.
                When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how
long you will be around
.
                                
                                      
When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all
fine.
               
When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.
                 
When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
 
                    
When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
 
          
When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.
                 When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than
that.
                      
Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....
 
                   
Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
who calls you back when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses
your forehead.
                                            
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
 
 
                                          
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!!
 
'  
If I don't get this back I guess your not my friend. If you have a lot of love for
someone.
                           

dnt....see anyone down.....




Its true.. 
 
 
We all love Sardar jokes. But do you know that Sikhs are one of the most hard working prosperous and diversified communities in the world. 
 
My friend told me about the following incident which I wish to share with you. It has had a deep impact on my thinking. 
 
During last vacation, my few friends went to Delhi . They rented a taxi for local sight-seeing. The driver was an old Sardar and boys being boys, these pals began cracking Sardarji jokes, just to tease the old man. 
 

But to their surprise, the fellow remained unperturbed. 
 
At the end of the sight-seeing, they paid the cab hire-charges. The Sardar returned the change, but he gave each one of them one rupee extra and said,
 
''Son, since morning you have been telling Sardarji jokes. I listened to them all and let me tell you, some of them were in bad taste. Still, I don't mind coz I know that you are young blood and are yet to see the world. But I have one request. I am giving you one rupee each. Give it to the first Sardar beggar that you come across in this or any other city.' 
 
My friend continued,* ' That one rupee coin is still with me.. I couldn't find a single Sardar begging anywhere.' 
 
MORAL :
The secret behind their universal success, is their willingness to do any job with utmost dedication and pride. A Sardar will drive a truck or set up a roadside garage or a dhaba, put a fruit juice stall, take up small time carpentry,............ but he will never beg on the streets. 

FRENDSHIP......LASTS longer than any relationship....


A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 
'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her foot! 



A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears.. 



A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book..



A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.



A simple friend hates it when you call after they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.



A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.



A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it! 
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when
you have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.. 



A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you! 



A simple friend reads this e-mail and deletes it.
A real friend passes it on and sends it back to you!



'Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. '
 

why women r special!!!

Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's
getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's
lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the
freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box
levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and owls on the
table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes
into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She
picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on
the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She
watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted
out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from
hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,
addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the
grocery store. She put both near her bag.
Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night
Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.
Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish
and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and
the patio light was on.. She looked in on each of the kids and
turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw
some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation
with the one up still doing homework.
In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next
day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her
6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV
and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he
did...without another thought.